How is one supposed to feel about fucking married guys?
There have been two, recently, that I'd love to get my paws on, but don't feel alright enough about their situations to indulge. If the wives were fine with it, sweet. But how often does that happen? We're not all as lucky as TBK.
My friend Yuukihiro invited me out for dinner the other night with him and a baseball friend (Kazu) of his. They are both pretty gorgeous, but especially Yuuki. He has a large, hard, lean body, beautiful arty hands, short hair, glowing chestnut skin, a mischievous smile, and a beautiful wife. Who doesn't have sex with him. Ever. She got the two kids she wanted and now just has no interest conjugal relations. Which leaves Yuuki... with what, a bland chaste lifetime of frustration and masturbation? That's so unfair! Such a waste!
The other: Sasuke. He and his girlfriend (not wife but same difference) own and run a restaurant together. She's lovely; he's much, much lovelier. He and I also have electric-shock fingers on each other; when we touch, there is a very distinct sort of crackle that makes my skin tingle and tighten. The first time we touched, we both looked up in amazement at the sensation. He is a passionate, intelligent guy with the kind of body people want to purchase. So handsome. And yet, his girl is another who isn't keen on sexy time, and freely admits that she will do anything to avoid sex. What the hell? I felt his boner once when we hugged, and it's DECENT, and I can't imagine that he's at all bad in bed, considering what a sensual person he his.
Why even be married to someone you don't ever have sex with? Isn't that more than a bit like just being friends?
Sigh.
4 comments:
It's surprising that you justify sleeping with married men by blaming their wives and naively believing that the reason their men stray must be that their wives never have sex with them.
If you're going to fuck married men, at least give their wives the dignity they deserve and be honest about the situation: that you enjoy the thrill of forbidden fucking.
Hi ecs,
If you read carefully, you'll see that I'm NOT sleeping with these married men, because I CAN'T justify it. But, cheers.
There are two married men I've slept with - one was a marriage of convenience and they were living on other sides of the country, rarely even speaking, and the other is the guy above.
I actually know his wife, and she has often openly expressed her distaste for sex and kissing - with her husband, with anybody. It's sad. And I don't think I'm naive for thinking that if he's not getting sex and affection from his wife, he will seek sex and affection with another person. People crave physical touch, eh?
But family is more important than a marriage itself here, so he's unlikely to leave her - at least until the kids are grown up.
Perhaps for that sort of reason, extra-marital sex isn't really that frowned upon in Japan, and many of my own friends have commented that they wouldn't give a hoot if their husband slept with somebody else, as long as he didn't leave her for the other woman, and that it would take the pressure off them to have sex with their husbands!
That sort of thinking opens up whole other cans of wormy questions - as in, why aren't women here encouraged to enjoy themselves with sex (have a peek at Japanese porn for a bit of insight on that one), and so on, but that's an entire different post.
It's not really the thrill of forbidden fucking that I enjoy, I have to say. It pains me a little (otherwise I wouldn't have posted about it, eh?). I avoid even flirting with people who are all marriaged up - but I don't consider all marriages sacred just because they're a marriage. Who am I to get all sanctimonious about somebody else's decisions?
Snapshot of my life 2 years ago:
I had affairs with 3 diff married boys in my workplace. At the same time. They all knew about each other.
Married boy 1: his wife hated sex and was super religious
Married boy 2: had 3 kids with his wife so their relationship was more like a daycare center
Married boy 3: married his high school sweetheart, regretted the wedding at the altar
Here is the outcome of each:
Married boy 1: felt guilty, ended affair, has fits of going online looking for sluts to fuck while he's married to his prude wife. Is miserable
Married boy 2: felt guilty, found God, ended affair, prays A LOT. I think he's OK with his life now.
Married boy 3: left his wife, had a fling with me, then ended up getting matching tattoos with a bipolar chick. I think he's OK with his life now.
Bottom line: Shit happens, I had a blast, and I have no doubt that when they are sitting in a nursing home waiting to die, they will look back at the fucking fantastic times they had with me and be glad for them.
I'm glad I'm not the only one.... This married man keeps trying to seduce me with presents and flattering me A LOT and I know its because he wants to have sex with me....I still havent decided if im gonna do it, but at least I know I would be in good company!
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